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Do you come on here hoping to turn someone toward your ways or are you just on here for fun?
I am on here for both. I hope that I can lead someone to Christ, although I make mistakes a lot. Hopefully someone will see something that I have said and it plants a seed in their heart for God to grow. This might just sound silly, but this is something I truly pray for. If only one person:)
It is fun to come on here for no reason too. I like to come on at night when my baby is asleep and type really fast because normally during the day it takes forever to type something because I am holding my baby in one arm.
I agree with you (Love the pic by the way). I think I still foolishly believe that I can be the one person in someone’s life to actually either change or challenge the way they see a specific cause, a person in their life, themselves, or a group of people. I will admit, I have had a hand full of success stories (or so they tell me) with people in this forum and other forums that I have visited. I talked to a young lady off life that decided to seek counseling for some past trauma that she was still suffering from. I was recently an emotional outlet for a man enduring a painful divorce (with the assistance of the lord that is, Aman), and I was able to convince a young man to go back to school and get his degree in Information Technology. So I’ve done well so far. Even thought I’m behind a computer, I try to be a blessing to others who just need someone to talk too, because the blessings will come back to me (may my cup run over). I even think at times that by me reading and giving others a chance to voice their opinions, it allows me to see things from a different perspective, and change the way I see things between the races, religions, and sexes (because I learn from the people who visit this forum as well as some of them learning from me).
But it is funny and interesting at times to just sit back and read some of the outlandish and ridiculous postings and answers that some people give. You can always tell who’s bitter, who’s newly separated, who’s having problems with the opposite sex, and who just has a bone to pick with someone (and it doesn’t matter who it is). I sit and laugh at some of those people because they have no idea how good it feels to just “let go and let god”. Holding on to anger and contempt does nothing but add stress onto the few days in your life that’s already promised unto you (at birth) to be filled with stress. All this talk about how evil feminist are, and like (I love this one) the user with the name “Women are more Selfish then Men” further centers me in the idea that the older you get the more you learn about people and how the world works (well some of us learn, some of us haven’t quite caught on just yet). Most users’ true personality shows in the reasons and logic they give behind their answers, and I feel pity for those who have to deal with them on a daily basis. One of the worst things in the world is having to live, work, or fight with someone who’s losing a battle with their own emotions. Oh well, we all have issues (including myself). So I think coming here is like therapy for me also. That’s why I spend so much time in here. Not to mention I’m trying to save money to buy a house, so I’m not doing nothing anyway.
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Well I come here to try and show that there are some really good single mom’s out there who love their kids and try and show that not ALL single mom are scum.
And also I like to point out that man can get hurt in DV with women. my dad was proff of that.
And i like to pass the time when my daughter is asleep. of course now i should be cleaning my apartment but I am too tired now. Have a good night everyone.
